Okay now!, I am not resurrecting some hackneyed concept of societal prudity, as usual I am just saying it like it is.

When I deeply ponder about the three aspects of our lives- men. women and marriage and divorce there after, it all sums up to one   question, why do people marry?. People lived in perfect functional societies without marriage, since when marriages became customs and traditions and all that imbibed the essence of a way of living really truly appals me.
At the end of another century, we are still primitive in forcing marriages on women, eh? why only women? honestly men do not need marriage, come to think of it , If I was a man  and if , all my life I had to slog for a woman just because I goddamn had become a part of some fateful design and helped two or more earthlings to be born on this earth?
why blame my sperm? I do not need these responsibilities just for having sex and then again having some random sex several more time of the years and plus living together !, it is not like I am a woman who has this urge to nurture, give birth and ejaculate a periodic outburst of PMS eggs!

I am a man..the ruler, giver and the strong provider , why the heck I am doomed to one woman and our  progeny all my life?

I would think that men don't need marriage, perhaps they are meant to be planting seeds around, and when they planted more seeds than possible, to force responsibilty, people thought about marriage and restricting men to take women as wives since he needed sex all the time, they said ..here!you have the woman, you use her, beget children and enjoy the imprisonment for the rest of your life!
and then women with children who had to tend the children got comfortable with the situation and then people started selling their daughters like cows, the more they had daughters the more they had to market and sell..so then the marriage became the staple, girls who reached puberty and had not known their own vagina were married and were "given away" mercilessly to butchers of Baghdad and some nice men.

and then what those men did with them is a history of sorts...some made them queens some made them prostitutes.

So, even today marriages and the concept of family is intact because we believe in that age old norm of one man and one woman, perhaps One man and many women, because marriages have not stopped men from praying, they have illicit , out of the marriage relationships , it is a basic instinct that cannot be looked over, it is a need that has to be satiated, because in marriage they never were a woman's...

Now divorce has become such a stigma more so because we believe in one man many women concept, 
we marry women off  and give them away, instead of teaching them life skills and making them independent like they do with men, it is in some ways a selfishness from the part of us parents who overlook the importance of education and skills for girls. Why should girls be "given away" when they are your own? why should they go to someone else's house and slave for others when they could do good for themselves? .
Do not pounce on me and talk about the emotional elements, bull shit!
Mother hood is a trade off for independence, once you are a mother you are  incapable of anything else, even if you are capable, it will only turn out to be a half done job for humanity.

and the term "housewife" is a disgrace for women, women do not need to embrace homes when men are not raised to understand and respect women, they should be paid for their job because they are cooking, cleaning, keeping appointments, paying bills, feeding and serving and doing laundry and sweeping and moping and they are totally doing for what  you may have to pay through your nose, while you...men acting up in Prada shoes and Polo shirts.

So, Let's dissolve the system of marriage, let's educate women and If men and women genuinely want to live with each other , then let the men bear children also, so let's  breed men with Vagina and let's have fun ladies...